It is ok to approach one or two girls to tell them that they have sparked a bit of interest in you and that you would like to develop a closer friendship with them. The princesses are, FIRST AND FOREMOST, your sisters in Christ, and I believe in a godly friendship between male and female members of the Royal Family.
That being said, it is absolutely wrong for you to be actively pursuing more than one princess at a time! Let me explain myself…
When you are pursuing a woman, you’ve made it clear that you would like to/ intend to develop more than just a friendship with her. Let’s call it “courting“. You cannot be courting more than one lady at a time; courting is/means dating with a purpose. What is the purpose of dating more than one person? Do you intend on marrying them all? Just like your steps, take it ONE AT A TIME!
It can end up very messy if you keep courting all these ladies at the same time, but end up choosing only one. The other ones will feel very much played with. Girls are not phone plans add-ons, or college programs. So if you still want to weigh your options, do not make anything exclusive with anyone. Get to know the ladies as friends, as your sisters in Christ, and THEN pick the one that has touched your heart differently, the one who reaches the depth of your soul ;). And then get to courting… Her, ONLY!
Princesses, this also applies to you, Don’t be a “Christian player”; it ain’t cute, it ain’t worthy of a #DOTMH! Keep it classy, keep it Holy!
Tune in next week as we go more in-depth on the topic of Godly dating.